5 Tips on How to Flirt with Girls During Video Chats

The definition of flirting is teasing and joking between men and women. It can also be understood as interacting with women on an emotional level or causing fluctuations in women’s emotions.

The premise of flirting

When flirting with girls, the mentality is very important. The mentality is to be able to say what you want to say at will and express your ideas freely. If you are too restrained and can’t relax when you see a girl, it will be difficult. The importance of the mentality of chasing girls cannot be overemphasized. We will talk about it in detail in the next article.

Language flirting

1. Calling

For girls, call her name first. After getting familiar with her, you can use nicknames, such as Huahua, Zhenzhen, etc. When a girl likes you, you can call her dear or baby to get closer to each other and create an ambiguous feeling.
Flirting words: There are many such words. The popular words expressing love on the Internet are all fine.
such as: “I miss you”
“I can’t help but want to get close to you when I see you”
“I don’t know how I feel about you, but I really miss you”
“Although I will see so many beautiful women outside, I still want you the most”.
There are many such words on the Internet, but it is best to be original and sincere when saying them, so that girls can feel your seriousness.

2. Role-playing

It is to implant your relationship with the girl into a specific interpersonal relationship in advance, such as siblings, concubines, husband and wife, etc. For example, calling a girl Queen Mother and asking her to call you Little Leo is a kind of flirting interaction. You can assign corresponding roles according to your own situation, or play the male and female protagonists in popular TV series. Note that the role-playing should be familiar to everyone, such as the recent popular TV series or familiar characters.

3. Humor and teasing

There are many ways to be humorous (narcissistic, praise, vulgar), but the most effective way to flirt is to distort. When chatting with a girl, distort her words and deeds in other ways. As long as what the girl says is similar to your distortion, it is reasonable. This requires a good imagination and active thinking. Especially if you can distort it in a sexual way, it will create greater sexual tension and speed up the process of picking up girls. For example, if a girl asks you your age, you can distort it in a sexual way. But be careful, when a girl doesn’t like you, don’t distort it directly in a sexual way. Girls will only think about your intentions if they have feelings for you. As the saying goes, if a man she likes tells her dirty jokes, she will think it is flirting; facing a man she hates, it will be considered sexual harassment.

Flirting with body language

Flirting is not just about language, body language is also important. Different tones, voices, eyes, and expressions are all needed. After speaking, use your eyes, expressions, and tone to hint at your true intentions so that the girl understands.

Gentle, non-aggressive skin contact: This contact is for the girl’s good and shows that you care. For example, gently put your arm around her shoulders, hold her hand in a crowded place, or pull her arm to a safe place. This will make the girl feel your confidence and care.
Ambiguous actions: such as feeding each other, holding hands without rejection, sharing a bottle of drink, looking at each other for a long time, gently holding her waist, and helping you tie a tie.

1. Other flirting techniques: Create sexual tension: One premise is that the girl is a little interested in you and thinks you are mysterious. Use your appearance, personality, or uniqueness to make her have some ideas about you. Then, play hard to get. For example, after dating a woman for a few days, suddenly stop and ignore her for a while to let her guess. This can also test her interest in you and make the subsequent interaction more intense.

2. Push and pull: This technique involves suppression (push) and reward (pull). When using push and pull, respect the woman. For example, say “I feel you”, then say “I’m teasing you”, and then say “I tease other girls, but I’m serious about you.” This teases the woman’s emotions and makes her emotions fluctuate.
Expectation: This is a technique used in the process of picking up girls. For example, “I want to hold your hand and go hiking”, “Holding your hand feels like an electric shock”, or “I feel excited or happy when I have physical contact with you”.

Flirting is an extremely wonderful process. It is a suitable way to express love to the opposite sex and an important way to capture the hearts of the opposite sex. In real life, most girls like to be teased by boys. As Zhang Ailing said: “A man who can’t tease a woman is not a real man.” What about you?